Warren,
Is your wife amenable to learning to sail?
I don't think she would be quite as worried if she knew what to do in the event that you, God forbid, went overboard. You may want to practice man overboard drills with her, using a mooring or a fender or something. Teach your wife how to maneuver up to a mooring and stop that boat even if that's the only thing she's willing to learn. (Having her sign up for a class would be better. Husbands and wives don't always make good student/teacher combinations. But she should do it on her own, don't force her.) Womanship has produced a video called "Sail Yourself Safely Home". It may be worth investing in.
Anyway, the cockpits of Cape Dorys are not overly large and it's an easy reach from side to side. Personally, I find running jacklines from the bow cleats to the stern cleats adequate onboard Realization. I haven't had any problem clipping in or moving about in the cockpit or on deck. You just have to remember you're attached to the boat and be mindful of where you're putting your feet (should be doing that anyway) so as not to trip over the tether or the jacklines. You should also remember to always leave one hand for you and one hand for the boat -- in other words, hold on.
I have actually been in a position where I was holding onto the boom with the tips of my fingers in the sail track and with only my toes on the toerail, shoes under water, being tossed around in a steep chop. And I can tell you I was very glad that I was wearing my inflatable PFD/harness and attached to the boat. If you're sailing alone, or in dicey weather or sea conditions, it's a must.
Just my 2 cents.
Cathy
CD32 Realization, #3
Rahway, NJ
Raritan Bay
Warren Kaplan wrote: Just a little more of my thinking. I prefer to get my attachment point for my harness ( one of the sospenders inflatables and harness in one) as close to the centerline of the boat as I can. My tether is a standard size...not very long and thats good. But my wife and I had the jacklines set up one day from the bow to the cockpit, along the deck flush where the coachroof meets the deck. We had them pretty tight. But my wife was very upset because I lost my footing at the mast and started to fall back. I regained my balance but my wife said that there was no way I wouldn't have careened over the the life lines and over the side with that setup. I would have been hanging by my tether over the side of the boat. Now perhaps the jacklines were too loose, but I don't think so. My idea of safety with these devices is to be yanked back by the tether before I even come near the lifelines. The padeyes near the center of the cockpit (on the locker walls) should accomplish that. I also think that I have to route the jacklines from the bow, down the centerline of the boat, onto the cabin top and secure them up there somehow. Running along the deck along side the cabin just won't preven me from going over the side. What do you think!
Warren
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